Ngati mnyamata ali ndi vuto la ndalama, ali ndi mwayi wokhala ndi chibwenzi. Akhozanso kukhala wopanda pokhala. Komabe, kuthetsa chibwenzi chake chotere, chifukwa chandalama, ndikumuzembera kwa mnzake. Chabwino, ndi misala momwe adzamuyang'ane m'maso pambuyo pake, pamene ndalama sizidzakhala vuto. Koposa zonse zinandikhudza mmene mtsikanayo, ndi maonekedwe okhutitsidwa, anatenga mbewu ya bwenzi lolemerali. Nthawi yomweyo ndinadzifunsa ngati akufunabe chibwenzi chake.
Kuchokera kutsogolo komanso kumbuyo - chabwino, mkazi wathyathyathya mwamtheradi. Ubwino umodzi wokha ndiwodziwikiratu - ma orifices opangidwa bwino. Ndipo ndithudi chifukwa cha matako athyathyathya ndizosavuta kukoka wokondedwa wanu kuthako, ngakhale osamupinda. Ndipo sindikuwona china chilichonse chosangalatsa mwa mayiyu! Mwamuna kwenikweni ndi wamsinkhu, kotero mwina chizindikiro chomwe chimamutsimikizira ndi zaka za mkazi komanso kuthekera komugwirira ntchito!
Adadi adatenthetsa! Ndikuyang'ana, ndimadzifunsa ngati zimawawa atsikanawa kukhala ndi chiwalo champhamvu chonchi m'mabulu awo! Koma amabuula mokoma moti nthawi yomweyo ndinayatsidwa.